When things go wrong, people love to say that it doesn’t matter because at least you’ve learned a valuable lesson in life. To be honest there are many lessons about human nature that I wish I had never learned. Am I the only one to feel that way? Are all lessons good ones? I don’t believe so, because if all lessons were good, all people would feel empowered by life and there would be no bitterness, anger or cynicism.

Personally, I don’t need tragedy or ‘little mishaps’ to learn…. we are all born with common sense and know the difference between right and wrong. Sayings are cute … but in the long run they don’t do much to help in situations that shouldn’t have been situations to begin with. Plus we can also learn from positive experiences, and I would much rather learn that way.

Dr Annabelle R Charbit

Author of A Life Lived Ridiculously
When a girl with obsessive compulsive disorder falls in love with a sociopath, she must fight for her sanity and her life.

http://www.ridiculouslife.net

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